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IF IT’S NOT INTHE CALENDAR, IT’S A GUESS.

If It’s Not In The Calendar, It’s A Guess — Never Start Over Again EP8
Episode 08 Signal: Systems 11 min listen

If It’s Not In
The Calendar,
It’s A Guess.

Everyone has 168 hours a week. The billionaire, the lawyer, the parent of three, the business owner. Same budget, different allocation. This episode is a coaching session — the same exercise Rickard does with entrepreneurs every week. Two audits. Thirty minutes. Everything changes when you actually look.

Show Me Your Calendar — Never Start Over Again Episode 8
“Make it simple, but significant.”
— Don Draper, Mad Men

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The opening test

Before reading any further — two numbers. Write them down honestly, just for yourself.

How many hours a week do you spend on your phone? Scrolling, streaming, watching. Your best estimate.

How many hours a week do you spend training? Intentionally moving your body for your health.

Hold those numbers. We are coming back to them.

Benjamin Franklin and the two daily questions

Benjamin Franklin was one of the most productive people in recorded history — founding father, diplomat, inventor, writer, publisher, scientist. He did more in one lifetime than most institutions manage in a century. And when historians looked at how, the answer was almost embarrassingly simple.

Every morning, one question: “What good shall I do today?” Every evening: “What good have I done today?” In between — he accounted for his hours. Not obsessively. Deliberately. He tracked the gap between what he intended and what actually happened.

He was not naturally disciplined. He understood that if you do not know where your time went, you cannot change anything. The review is not a waste of time. It is how you sharpen the saw — so everything else cuts better.

Two hundred and fifty years later, the data on how people actually spend their time is one of the most uncomfortable things to look at. So let’s look at it.

Where your 168 hours actually go

Every person on this planet has exactly 168 hours a week. Billionaires, parents, lawyers, business owners — same budget. Here is how the average working adult actually allocates theirs.

168 hours — the real breakdown · 2024/2025 data
56h
Sleep8 hours per night — the one non-negotiable most people cut first when life gets busy.
42h
WorkFull-time employed adults, including work-related travel and preparation.
4–5h
CommutingGermany average: 26 minutes one way. 52 minutes a day, over 4 hours a week — just getting there and back.
14h
Meals, hygiene, household tasksCooking, eating, cleaning, errands. The maintenance of being alive.
18h+
Screens — social media and streamingSocial media alone: 2h 21min per day. TV and streaming: 2h 36min per day. Conservative weekly total: 18–25 hours.
4h
Real social connection35 minutes per day in 2024 — down 40% from 2014. Nobody decided to connect with people less. It happened in the gaps while screens filled them.
2h
Exercise and sportAverage adult: 18 minutes per day. Three sessions per week at 1 hour each = 3 hours = 1.8% of your week.
~28h
Everything elseFamily, children, hobbies, reading, thinking — the gaps where your actual life either happens or doesn’t.
The numbers that stop people
Screen time vs exercise — same week, same person9× more screens
Real socialising since 2014↓ 40% less
Subscription spend vs what people estimate2.5× higher
Gym memberships that go unused worldwide67%

That last one. 67% of gym memberships go unused. People are already paying for fitness. They signed up, they gave the direct debit permission, they had the intention. They are just not going. They are spending money on health and time on screens — simultaneously — while telling themselves they have neither.

“You are not too busy and you are not too broke. You are unaware. That is the only real problem.”

The coaching session — two audits

When Rickard sits down with an entrepreneur, the first thing he asks is simple: show me your calendar. Not what you plan to do. What is actually in there. The calendar tells everything — where the real focus goes, what gets protected, what gets sacrificed, what is being built versus merely hoped for.

If it is not in the calendar, it is not a priority. It is a wish. And wishes do not compound.

Audit One — The Time Audit
1 Open last week’s calendar. Not this week’s intentions — last week’s reality. What was actually in there? What happened in the blank spaces between meetings?
2 Check your screen time report. Settings → Screen Time. Look at the weekly total. Compare it to the number you estimated at the start of this episode. Most people are off by a factor of two or more.
3 Find the gap. Between screens and movement. Between meetings and deep work. Between other people’s priorities and your own. Then ask Franklin’s question: what good have I actually done this week?
4 Block six to eight weeks out. If this week is already too full, go to next month. Put training in. Put social connection in. Put deep work in. Before the week can fill itself without your permission.
Audit Two — The Money Audit
1 Write down your estimate. What do you think you spend on subscriptions monthly? Streaming, apps, memberships, software, deliveries. An honest number before you look.
2 Open your bank statement. Last three to six months. Find every recurring charge across every payment method. Or paste them into an AI tool and let it sort and categorise everything.
3 Find one you have not used in 30 days. Cancel it today. Take that money — even if it is €15 — and redirect it toward something that compounds. Health, skills, experience, savings. The amount matters less than the decision.

Franklin called his version of this moral accounting. A simple ledger, reviewed daily. Most people never do it once. Not because they are lazy — because nobody ever asked them to show their calendar.

This week’s one action

Open your calendar right now. Find three slots where your training will happen this week — not where you hope it will, where it will. Put them in. Name them. Protect them as you would a client meeting or a flight.

Then schedule one hour in the next seven days for the money audit. Put it in the calendar. That appointment alone could save you hundreds of euros a year and show you exactly where your resources have been going without your awareness.

Two calendar edits. That is how it starts. Not with a resolution. With a decision that leaves a mark in the data.

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“I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. “So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”
— J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring

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